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Need a hug? Just pick up the phone
Scientists have discovered that a conversation on the phone can be as good as a hug in terms of boosting the "love hormone" oxytocin.

Forget the WAGs, meet the SADs
If the British public was shocked by the WAGs (Wives and Girlfriends) culture at the World Cup finals in Germany four years ago, this year is going to be all about SADs - Sons and Daughters.

<i>Harry Potter</i> stars to marry
Bonnie Wright, the 19-year-old Harry Potter actress - who plays the title character's love interest Ginny Weasley, is reportedly engaged to one of her co-stars.

A galaxy of stars ... and me
Dita De Boni is thrust back into the social scene post giving birth to and raising her small children - and finds she has nothing to wear.

In the name of the mother
What's in a name? Shelley Bridgeman discovers that society can be slow on the uptake when it comes to the patronymic.

An honest parody
Courteney Cox's new role is her most daring and controversial yet. She tells Rebecca Barry why she's basically playing herself.

Supermum to 17 - and all hers
When Michelle tells people about her brood of 17, "their jaws drop". Then they ask if they have misheard - "It usually takes three times before people believe me".

Disciplinary action
An incident at a cafe has Scott Kara wondering - what do you do when someone else tells off your kid?

Lots of takers for dinner with Dan
He broke up with his girlfriend, but was determined not to waste his $200 mystery bus tour and dinner for two.

Forward thinking: A send-off fit for a Captain
He was prepared to steer his boat into any weather, ride his Harley fast and drive his Corvette faster. I never knew the guy, but it's clear he was a legend - and a hoot.

Divorce total slides to its lowest in 20 years
The number of divorces in New Zealand has dropped to a 20-year low, Family Court figures show.

Low divorce rate not a sign of happy marriages - expert
A low divorce rate shows Kiwis avoid marriage unless they're truly committed, a relationship counsellor said.

Killing them softly with Playhouse Disney
The loud wail some Aucklanders may have heard this week from the region of Mt Eden was no alarm, car horn or siren - it was me, reacting to the news our TV was on the blink.

A bit on the side
Modern life presents numerous ways to cheat: texts, direct messages, or plain, old-fashioned affairs. But is infidelity really betrayal? Radical couples therapist Esther Perel says it might be exactly what your relationship needs.

Polygamists 'breeding for cash'
The burqa is getting all the attention in the debate over Muslims in France. But another controversial tradition among some immigrants is less noticed and far more widespread.

More Kiwi couples forgoing drawn-out engagements
Long engagements are out as an increasing number of Kiwis are rushing to say "I do" after three months or less.

Painful truth for women
It may be a bitter pill for women to swallow, but men handle pain better than the fairer sex, a leading expert says.

Multi-tasking doulas
Some 'doulas' - women who provide personal support during childbirth are now also offering their services during abortions, writes Dita De Boni.

<i>Shortland Street</i>'s gay jibes anger Tauranga residents
A Shortland Street episode which portrayed Tauranga as being intolerant of gay people has infuriated tourism bosses and residents.

Sandra Bullock files for divorce, reveals adoption of baby
The Oscar-winning actress revealed yesterday on People magazine's website that she is adopting a 3½-month-old boy.

Fatherhood can help anti-social men find hope - study
Fatherhood can be the key to transforming anti-social young men into responsible citizens, according to new research.

Jesse James spotted without wedding ring
The motorcycle entrepreneur has reportedly told friends he knows his marriage to Sandra Bullock is over.

Matt Damon and wife expecting third baby
The Bourne Ultimatum actor and his wife Luciana already have two daughters together.