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‘I’ve given up asking’: Why so many midlifers are struggling with sexless marriages
Telegraph: "Sex became perfunctory... it seemed like a favour she was bestowing upon me."

Advice: My partner will only sleep with me if I buy her gifts. Am I being used?
Telegraph: Is a transactional relationship ever OK? It's complicated, says Rachel Johnson.

How to divorce well: Kiwi lawyer on how to avoid mistakes many couples make
Is it possible to have a tidy divorce? Leading barrister Sharon Chandra explains how.

The real-life dating boot camp that inspired Love on the Spectrum
New York Times: "Do I say I am 'neuro-spicy'? Or 'neurodiverse'? Or do I disclose at all?"

The Ex-Files: How to access KiwiSaver funds after separation
OPINION: I can't afford to pay out my ex-partner – what can I do?

Advice: My best friend ghosted me, and I’m devastated. Help!
New York Times: "I have reached out to her many times, but she hasn't responded."

Varsha Anjali: Sabrina Carpenter and the rage over the sexual woman
OPINION: This is a case of projection.

'Great respect': Sacha Baron Cohen and Isla Fisher officially divorced
The pair confirmed the news on social media.

'Far out, she's gorgeous': All Black and doctor share romantic proposal
Brad Weber and his fiancee plan to wed in New Zealand.

After years of his lying about drinking, how do I trust my husband again?
Washington Post: Navigating trust when addiction strains your marriage.

What Kiwis get wrong about wills, according to a family lawyer
Around 50% of Kiwis don't have a will. Here's why you should.

Are dating apps bad for your mental health?
'People are constantly looking for validation and a dopamine rush that doesn't happen.'

Divorce lawyer describes common trends that lead to Kiwi couples splitting
Barrister Sharon Chandra discusses what she observes NZ couples doing repeatedly.

Nobody saw our divorce coming – not even me
Telegraph: "We were the family that others admired ... the truth was more complicated."

Jay-Jay Feeney on romance, long-distance love and future plans
The radio legend reveals she and her boyfriend, Minou, are talking about marriage.

Upston on her former press secretary
Social Development Minister Louise Upston responds to allegations concerning her former press secretary Michael Forbes. Video / Mark Mitchell

Kiwi sexologist Morgan Penn shares dating advice ... and disasters
The Sex.Life podcast host is on a ‘quest for love’.

Ask an expert: I’ve never felt worthy of love or attention - how can I start?
How to navigate self-worth amid cultural expectations.

What I call a chat, he calls an argument: How blazing rows almost broke our eight-year relationship
Telegraph: How learning to argue can save relationships.

The professor who’s found a cure for couples who don’t have sex
Desire often wanes in long-term relationships, but there's ways to keep the spark alive.

I’m in love with my best friend’s wife - did I marry the wrong woman?
Telegraph: What if the love of your life married your best friend and you never told her?